Get over it already!

I was at someone's blog. She's obviously in pain. One day, when she turned around to smile at him, he was no where in sight, she wrote.

I don't mean to be harsh, but I have this uncanny knack of calling a stupid spade a stupid spade.

I've done it so many times - blame my ex(s) for breaking up and walking away - but it's high time, I realised, it's their life after all.

They've got the right to choose who they want to spend it with.

And come on, no matter how much any one denies, we are all always looking for THE one. Always hoping that this is it.

Do we really expect someone who sure has promised his/her life on the lines for you, promised beyond forever, to stick to it even after they've realised, "Hell, I don't love him/her like I thought I did."

You can't expect people to compromise their entire lives ahead of them just because they made promises.

Realise, understand, they were with you, most of them, with good intentions, but then somewhere midway, or a little further than midway, they figured out that you weren't the ones they wanted to be with.

Do you really expect to find your DREAM girl or guy, without trial and error?! For some lucky few, yes, it may have been possible. The first girl they met, and then never looked back. Their childhood sweetheart or something.

But that's rare... so lets just count that out. Coz you are no one's childhood sweetheart, and if you were or are, he/she or you never had to guts to make the first move. So crap that.

Stop crying over break ups.

In one break up I went through, my 23rd, I was so mad, that I actually called a lawyer up to find out if I could sue for someone just walking out on me like that. You know, there are two people involved here. How can suddenly, after years, one person decide that she/he doesn't want the relationship? I mean, what does the other person do?

It's a different matter the lawyer started laughing and the phone got cut.

But now I've kinda realised, people have the right to choose who they want to be with. And they can... and will mistake you for their dream human sometimes. When they find out you're not, they'll walk away.

They'll obviously give some other reasons for why they're walking away, because probably they themselves woulnd't know. They'd think they're breaking up because you're too clingy, or you're too obsessive, or too big a drunk for them to handle, or that you don't get along with their friends... or whatever it is you guys fought about all the time.

The point is, when you'll find the one you love, the flaws won't matter. Who you are won't matter. That it's you and only you they want is the only thing that will.

So will you weirdos please stop crying over break ups, and over men who walked away from your lives?! Yes? Give those guys a break man, cut 'em some slack.

This is a BIIIIIG muuuaaahhh to all my ex-girlfriends. I hope you have found, or find your guy. I mean, I know he can't be better then me... like err... duh... but, whatever works for you. LOL!

God...

Do you really think the one who left is the last person you'll ever meet... the last person, who'll come close to being your dream? You gotta be kidding me!

Allah ke bandeh hasde
Jo bhi ho, kal phir aayega

Kho ke apne par hi toh usne thha urna seekha
Kal ko apne saath mein lele,
dard bhi tere kaam aayega

Tukre tukre ho gaya thha har sapna jab woh toota
Bikhre tukro mein Allah ki marzi ka manzar paayega

Allah ke bandeh hasde
Jo bhi ho... kal phir aayega