Nepal :)
A little fooled by the long hair, stuble, the Indian look and a long beige overcoat, they sometimes give a second and third look and then come up and ask, "Are you in the movies?"
I smile and tell them, "No brother, I am not John Abraham... just in case you're wondering."
Thamel - it's a place where most of the bacpacking foriegners stay. If you're from Delhi, aaahh forget it, you won't get it.
It's like Paharganj. For most of the regular fucked up Delhiites, who're too busy partying their asses off in five-star hotel nightclubs, Paharganj, is a narrow, shady, unclean area with small narrow lanes and thousands of cheap shops alongsie these lanes. They believe if they go there, either they'll be robbed, or cheated, or raped, that probably the most dreaded gangsters reside there.
Bullshit.
Why all the foreigners stay in Paharganj when they come to Delhi isn't because the hotels there are dirt cheap, and they can't afford any better. You know them as hippies. I call them hardcore travelers. They know what they're talking about.
They stay there, yes, sure it's cheap, but they feel at home there. It's a place, unlike the rest of Delhi, where in two seconds when a woman passes the Delhiites by, she's virtually stripped an raped with the dirty stares.
In Paharganj, it's nott he case. Coz they're so used to foreigners being there. It's normal for them, a woman wearing skimpy clothes and walking around admiring the Bob Marley smoking a chilam posters, or the Om curtains, or the marijuana pipe shops.
It's no wonder why in India, in The capital city of India, in the heart of paharganj bang opposite the railway station, some Indians themselves are not allowed inside the German Bakery crowded with who you call hippies.
Indians will go berserk there. They won't understand the concept of peace sans luxury. They won't understand why strangers are smiling at each other and making conversations about their trip to Pushkar or Kasaul, or Old Manali, why they LOOK so untidy, why a man is wearing a skirt and walking around not bothered about weird people staring and laughing.
Anyway, coming to the point, Thamel, probably thrice the size of Paharganj (Hey, Conrad how big is Paharganj? Is it bigger than where we've trudged?), but Thamel is exactly like Paharganj. Exactly.
Dotted with cheap hotels, foreigners, the Bakeries, informal Pubs extremely tastefully done like the Buddha bar, or The New Orleans Cafe, or the Tequila Bar... there must be more, I haven't yet found them or gone inside. And then there are what seem like millions of shops, selling clothes psycadelic carpets, curtains, wall hangers, chilams, clothes, clothes, clothes... you get my point eh? I can't explain better.
Thamel is where I am staying. It's a place I make some great friends... from all over the world.
On my hotel's rooftop (i pay just about 160 Indian Rupees for a night, I get 24 hours warm water, a doule bed, a small TV, a balcony...), every night after Nepal (except the casinos, which I will tell you about in my next post, it desrves one entire one) sleeps, just about right after midnight all the foreigners in the hotel come up and sit, smoke up, play the guitar sing, talk, laugh. Some of them have been in Nepal for months together - hardcore travelers like I said.
Jasec (pronounced: Yasec), a Canadian, has been in Nepal for two months, when his plan was to stay here for just two weeks. Job? Balls to the job. Traveling is his job, only difference is that, he has to spend money on it rather than earn from it.
I met him yesterday at Budha Bar, where, sipping wine he was reading a book about undiscovered destinations of India, where he's headed next.
I promised to show him around Delhi, the way I like it, the way I know he'll love it, when I get there on the 18th.
I have so much to write. But what do I tell you? I'm sure you won't understand.
I'm lost... bigtime, in my life. I don't know when I'll find myself. But I know there's one thing about me I know for sure, and i am damn proud of it.
I always head towards untrodden terrotories, and then find my way there, and in the process meet some extraordinary people.
Let me ask you a question?
What's education?

12 Comments:
awesome man...
Now why didn't I think of visiting Nepal when I was in India huh? Sounds really nice.. You may think you're lost but I think you're seem to be more on a journey of "finding" . way to go !!!
Education .. I take it that's a rhetoric question, no doubt.. :)
You're right, it's a concept we just don't understand. I met this israeli guy here who, in every conversation, throws up the name of a different country where he's travelled.. just for the sake of travel. He's worked as a tourist guide in India, he's sold jewellery in Japan.. it's like he knows a part of my country that I myself have no clue about.
Some of us talk about travelling when we've earned enough money.. bullshit! We want enough money before travelling so that we don't have to go through the real rigours of what travel can entail.
:D
I was toying with the notion of going to Nepal in June, I think I'm definitely gonna go there now! :)
I love travelling... but walking the path you walk (though tempting) is not mine. I love home too much, my space, my things, kept the way I like em... Gives me a sense of comfort I don't otherwise get. Thats possibly why I don't think I'd ever become a compulsive travellor.
Then again :P
CLINT: yeah man i know
Misreflect: A man can only go out finding something when he begins to believe he's lost something. The first step is to admit you've lost something.
I've lost me, it happened somewhere between the age on 20 and 25, I might have been so pre-occupied with my anger, my pretense... that i didn't even know when the real me left me somewhere all alone.
If by the end of my life, I can find my trueself, I'll die a peaceful me.
Xeb: You gotta give up everything, including wealth, everything you think is yours, you think you own... to get to other side. It isn't everyone's cup of tea. Most of us are way too insecure to even leave the things we think are ours for even a second coz we think someone else will take them... that includes the people we think belong to us.
To get to the other side you need to give up every single thing.
Cowlick: You're talking my language. I understand what you mean.
To get to the other side....
Sounds very ummm darth-vader, star-wars type. But I get what you're saying. Just don't think giving things up is possible really. I've frequently been compared to a magpie... :P I'm a compulsive collector... and when its all said and I need to have something/someone/somewhere to come home to.
I think maybe thats what you're looking for too.
Then again... maybe not. Happy searching anyway! :)
its always good to be adventurous, explore new sides to life AND places..
nice blog- first visit here.
question for you- where are you hosting the music thats playing on your blog? i tried making it work on mine, it didnt =(
oh wow! that is so damn cool man! temme u're havin fun! :D
WOW... 160 bucks a night is dirt cheap for the peak season... Seems like a lotta fun dude! Carry On.
p.s. did u remove that song that i put on my blog from ur artistserver account? :-(
im talking of that song that goes...
Who knows where this love goes.... somethin like that... did u remove it... cud u just mail me that song if its a problem...
Xeb: Maybe thats what I'm looking for. Let's see where she is, when she'll find me, or when I'll find her. She's there somewhere, I am sure.
Shaima: yes it is.
As far as the song goes... mmmm... it's an html code you put in your template which I am too lazy to go to right now.
creativelock.blogspot.com
Go to his blog and ask him, he'll be happy to help you out.
J: I'm havin fun.
Sonny boy: I have never heard those words in a song before.
ok no probs man! :-)
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